Nicole A.
Diving into the swinging lifestyle can feel equal parts exciting and overwhelming. With so many terms, expectations, and emotions involved, knowing where to begin is key. This guide is designed to help you navigate the early stages—whether you're curious, partnered, or just exploring the idea. From setting boundaries to finding your community, we’ll walk you through the essentials so you can step into this new world with confidence and clarity.
Getting Started with Your New Lifestyle
Now that you have decided to test out the lifestyle, it's normal to feel overwhelmed about where to get started. Here are some recommendations to help you ease into it:
1. Read Resources
Begin by exploring the resources available here. The resources available here will help you gain some great insights into some key details of the lifestyle.
2. Utilize Online Searches
Hit up Google to find additional information and articles that resonate with your interests. The internet is full of information. Its scattered all over but its there.
3. Connect with Recommended Groups
Explore the events tab to find and connect with some of our recommended groups. Engaging with others can enhance your experience. Don't be afraid to ask questions and allow more experienced people to mentor you. Having someone to help guide you is a great way to find more peace and success in the lifestyle early on.
4. Take Your Time
Go slow and take your time to absorb everything. There’s no rush in this journey. Never feel pressured to engage in play or push your boundaries. Lifestyle is filled with respectful and kind hearted people and its absolutely to not be ready to fully engage until you feel like it.
5. Communicate Often
Keep the lines of communication open with your spouse. I can't stress the importance of communication enough. Its also great to have a trusted friend in the lifestyle to share your concerns, frustrations or questions with to get some additional perspective. Sharing your thoughts and experiences can be very beneficial.